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Lifetime Adoption Foundation

Building Families and Futures Through Adoption Grants & Educational Scholarships

“The scholarship helps those who have sacrificed so much”

Birth mother scholarship helps those who have sacrificed to make others happy“I got pregnant with my first child while attending college. I was very scared and sought help from a crisis pregnancy center. I dropped out of college and moved to live in a maternity home. While there, I received some counseling and support to help me try and make a decision whether to parent or place for adoption. I decided that adoption would be best for my daughter because I did not have the financial or emotional support to raise her. I met wonderful adoptive parents who could offer her a better life than I could.
My biggest challenge as a birth mother has been dealing with the grief after placing my daughter for adoption. Instead of getting counseling and help, I made some unhealthy and irresponsible choices. I gave up on my goals of finishing school, and I found myself pregnant again. My family came together, and we decided to raise my son instead of placing him for adoption. I still had a lot of internal feelings and issues surrounding my daughter’s placement, and again I found myself pregnant for the third time.
My third child was adopted by wonderful people who I became very close with during the pregnancy. The adoption is open, and I see her a lot. I received a lot of counseling and became involved with other birth moms and adoption support groups as well as the agency. I was finally able to express to others my concerns and feelings of loss. It has really helped me realize that I want to continue my education and pursue a career where I could help other people involved in pregnancy and adoption.
As a single parent and birth mom to two children, I feel a strong need to set an example for them as well as prove to myself that I can overcome difficult life obstacles and still complete my goals. During my pregnancies and the adoption process, I have become very interested in helping other women who find themselves in a similar situation as I did. I have been taking a class or two at a time. I have made A’s and B’s since I have started taking classes again and I am much more focused on my school work than I was before. I absolutely love learning new things and for the first time in my life can say that I have put 100% into my school work and am pleased with the results. I would love to be able to finish my program, become financially independent and work in a career that I enjoy.
This scholarship would help not only my son, but my family, and me. My mother, son and I live paycheck to paycheck and rely a lot on help from other family members for diapers, bills, and even food sometimes. I could not afford to go to school during the past semester because I needed to save every penny for daily living expenses. I really feel like the scholarship program for birth mothers is a great way to help out those who have sacrificed a lot to make others happy. I feel very passionate about becoming more involved in the adoption community and giving back to those who help me. I would be very blessed and appreciative of any financial help that I may receive to make this possible.”